tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post8735086775357699628..comments2023-10-11T03:49:53.934-04:00Comments on The Gold Puppy: WizenedReya Mellickerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-58468465175289275312011-07-16T09:37:40.688-04:002011-07-16T09:37:40.688-04:00Everyones life path deals with choices and the res...Everyones life path deals with choices and the resulting consequences. Relationships need nuturing and compromising.<br /><br />As for karma in relationships, we have to work on those issues that were not resolved in a previous life. It is best to remember the good times while considering what might have been done at the time to change the outcome. <br /><br />Self-mastery to reach a greater consciousness requires solitude. You're on your path, Reya. You're on your way!Barbara Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00610140328527165017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-44058338736335995552011-07-16T09:21:35.405-04:002011-07-16T09:21:35.405-04:00Timely post for me Reya. I've posted in a simi...Timely post for me Reya. I've posted in a similar frame of thinking to you, but I'm tilting as you put it - in the middle of wisdom aquiring circumstances and trying not to tilt!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-26945603150814572392011-07-16T03:47:22.333-04:002011-07-16T03:47:22.333-04:00I`m with Steven. Always kinda thought if I was bei...I`m with Steven. Always kinda thought if I was being "good", things would turn out well. But you can`t avoid some very hard decisions, and hurting others (and yourself). Life always means loss (Jake and others, here too), and yet and yet... I LOVE life, and if I gained any wisdom so far, it has to do with "Love and Joy conquers all the tough stuff!" So go out and skip, Reya!Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06484336744673299416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-49260198915499179502011-07-15T17:11:25.563-04:002011-07-15T17:11:25.563-04:00I rushed through life not taking the time to look ...I rushed through life not taking the time to look at some (not all) of my choices. Now that I'm freer I am able to reflect on past experiences and wish like hell I'd had more sense then. Guess that realization comes with age and with finally understanding one's own worth & feelings. Good luck with this. Payback is a bitch.Cheryl Catohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13294358830518520566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-70645722130387441602011-07-15T13:23:38.472-04:002011-07-15T13:23:38.472-04:00Jo - tiny heart. Not sure answers will ever arrive...Jo - tiny heart. Not sure answers will ever arrive. One thing that seems clear is that following my marriage, partnership, and 14 years with Jake, it's small wonder my hair is grey! Ha!Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-26415995538282391352011-07-15T12:41:16.094-04:002011-07-15T12:41:16.094-04:00Fascinating discussion here, Reya. I have only the...Fascinating discussion here, Reya. I have only the observation that sometimes two people can be in the same experience and yet have two completely different experiences. Know what I mean?<br /><br />How much of our difficulty is a matter of perception and how much do we ordain to be karma? <br /><br />Heaven knows I'm unworthy of offering advice, but you are worthy of trusting your own feelings, instincts, and intuition. You are so wise. <br /><br />And I know that when you figure out the answers, you'll share them with us so that we call can benefit. <br /><br />Thank you! ♥Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14937847762010497687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-62077155952935454962011-07-15T10:27:19.455-04:002011-07-15T10:27:19.455-04:00SG - you're only 32? Wow. Old soul!SG - you're only 32? Wow. Old soul!Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-13974994974878272652011-07-15T10:23:27.481-04:002011-07-15T10:23:27.481-04:00Yeah, gaining wisdom is an arduous task. For a lon...Yeah, gaining wisdom is an arduous task. For a long time I believed that life worked on very simple principles. But it hasn't turned out to be so simple, and with everyday, I learn something new. And yes, learning, at times, is not all that easy.<br /><br />Well, thank God that I learn, because merely two years back, having barely crossed thirty, I felt I was heading to a life of stagnation.SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439071211238467709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-49666419556885919702011-07-15T09:22:56.519-04:002011-07-15T09:22:56.519-04:00Thanks, Ellen.Thanks, Ellen.Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-69323599720523023632011-07-15T09:17:20.570-04:002011-07-15T09:17:20.570-04:00I have such a good world around me at the moment, ...I have such a good world around me at the moment, it's so good! I'm thinking bout how not to TILT into the wisdom acquiring circumstances in the future. Life itself, as you say, will bring plenty of opportunity!Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-80232296150226131532011-07-15T09:13:47.085-04:002011-07-15T09:13:47.085-04:00Well there's no rule that says you have to wor...Well there's no rule that says you have to work through all your karma in one lifetime. Or maybe you decided to do some major housecleaning this time around. Who knows? Anyone who works so hard deserves a rest now and then.ellen abbotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00535475792150335186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-69774074348476312002011-07-15T09:13:21.643-04:002011-07-15T09:13:21.643-04:00reya i've been mulling over this idea for some...reya i've been mulling over this idea for some time because i remembered having this idea as a little boy that life could be easy. good. perpetually good no matter what was going on around you. because if you were good then the little world you create could be good too. but the situations that arrive like family, school, relationships, work, are so complex that other stuff gets mixed in and that's where the "learning" comes along. that's how karma gets played out. how do i manage the inevitability of the other stuff and still hold together my own good little world? how do i learn if i try to continue despite all the other stuff? can i grow as a person through learning to continue in my own work while not getting overly wrapped up in the messy other stuff? i dunno yet. working on it! stevenstevenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14132104804524716898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-43004632028354610112011-07-15T09:06:55.033-04:002011-07-15T09:06:55.033-04:00Dana, don't curse yourself or Mike, please! In...Dana, don't curse yourself or Mike, please! Indeed anyone who takes on a Scorpio is bound to enjoy some drama. But you two are a great team, you are! My exes and I? Not so much, not ever. Oy. Vey.Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-82822366024286284532011-07-15T09:04:50.938-04:002011-07-15T09:04:50.938-04:00No, you make perfect sense to me. In fact, I'm...No, you make perfect sense to me. In fact, I'm pretty sure that if something happens to Mike I will just soldier on alone because I don't have the energy for all that drama anymore!The Bughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07509037206264761261noreply@blogger.com