tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post4035612698453258612..comments2023-10-11T03:49:53.934-04:00Comments on The Gold Puppy: Say what?Reya Mellickerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-67823582534642315822011-11-20T08:10:30.561-05:002011-11-20T08:10:30.561-05:00You see Pam, this is why I admire and adore you. P...You see Pam, this is why I admire and adore you. People marry successfully when the other person's flaw suit them. Well. Wow! Yeah.Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-50033220184992718692011-11-20T01:28:38.644-05:002011-11-20T01:28:38.644-05:00Yeah, love is the big thing but ultimately, whethe...Yeah, love is the big thing but ultimately, whether its marriage or a non-marriage life commitment, it's ultimately with someone who's faults suit you, otherwise it wouldn't last,right? <br />Husband and I had a vegetarian Christmas last year. On principle,I have trouble with all those animals being slaughtered, but everyone was welcome to bring the meat they preferred, as we don't force our principles on the rights of others and their beliefs.There were other vegetarians in the family, so all in all we had a great time.<br />I always like to ask people who are happy together how they met. Only once I've been told "rather you didn't ask - it caused a painful divorce on both sides and even now, happy as we are, there is a lot of residual guilt".<br />Enjoyed your post Reya.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-92116310696251724192011-11-19T07:17:02.798-05:002011-11-19T07:17:02.798-05:00Vega is single.Vega is single.Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-16458915173308456642011-11-19T03:16:19.268-05:002011-11-19T03:16:19.268-05:00When my husband and I met at a blind date (me 17, ...When my husband and I met at a blind date (me 17, him 21), we just looked at each other and thought, WOW! So we have finally met! And we`ve been together since, although I was determined NOT to get married (my parents` marriage was a catstrophe). Why does it work with us? Who can tell. He is quite a challenge to me, and vice versa. But we laugh and giggle together, we share our thoughts (most), we include the other totally in our lives. I can`t imagine my life without him. <br />But does it have to be marriage?<br />Not since the children are grown.<br /><br />I guess Vega with her adventurous life is not married?Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06484336744673299416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-18811379952021205782011-11-18T21:32:39.523-05:002011-11-18T21:32:39.523-05:00Married for 30 years and proud of it. Before that:...Married for 30 years and proud of it. Before that: a failed marriage of not quite 7 years. I can't imagine life without my best friend.Lynnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05875008154587045790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-41110428212984485802011-11-18T17:51:52.818-05:002011-11-18T17:51:52.818-05:00Cheryl, you two - you and the G man - well, it is ...Cheryl, you two - you and the G man - well, it is destiny! I love how I feel when I read your words. Now that is TRUE love.<br /><br />Elizabeth I hope you blood runs warm asap because winter has arrived even here in DC. It's cold! You and Robert are soul mates, for sure. And you are very tolerant and kind to one another. I love the energy you share, how you are very engaged with each other, very comfortable.Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-32130714223874231102011-11-18T17:48:30.066-05:002011-11-18T17:48:30.066-05:00Ellen, would that we did have the bottle, couch an...Ellen, would that we did have the bottle, couch and some time. That would be so fun!Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-74142402357834775022011-11-18T17:40:09.873-05:002011-11-18T17:40:09.873-05:00"Say what?" Well you said it. Sometimes ..."Say what?" Well you said it. Sometimes I ponder the subject as well. I am happier now than I have ever been with any other man. <br />The G-man & I get along well. We are pretty darned accepting and supportive of each other which is much more that I can say about my two previous marriages.<br />At our age we certainly didn't have to marry but we wanted to. I see two of my unmarried friends who and they have no control over their own relationship because illness set in on one and his life has been completely taken over by the daughter. It's a sad situation.<br />No one can mess with me & the G-man! We are tight... with power-of-attorney as well as spousal rights.<br />Have I mentioned love? Yes, we love each other and I'm so happy to be in his life & he in mine.Cheryl Catohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13294358830518520566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-70654158812283157152011-11-18T16:43:26.323-05:002011-11-18T16:43:26.323-05:00Didn't go to your blog yesterday so missed THE...Didn't go to your blog yesterday so missed THE LEAF below!<br />WOWSERS! so splendid<br /><br />your book seems to be rattling along at an alarming rate<br /><br />for a REALLY scary book about betrayal and weird stuff read John Fowles THE MAGUS<br />I was really disturbed by it.<br /><br />Ken Russell is one of my all time fave film directors<br />see Mahler with the divine (well, way back then!)<br />Robert Powell.<br /><br />I do admire your energy.<br /><br /><br />R and I have been married since the dawn of time --and it is still a constantly changing thing....<br /><br />You make my blood run cold with the turkey slaughter weekend thing......<br /><br />much loveElizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03964291132366262298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-30451861879060689072011-11-18T16:21:28.415-05:002011-11-18T16:21:28.415-05:00Being with Bill is the greatest source of joy and ...Being with Bill is the greatest source of joy and fun in my life, but as you said to me, I married well. I suppose we wouldn't need to be married for this but we are. Sometimes I think he is my reward :)<br />Funny you bring this up today (or not), one of M's friends is going to be proposed to over Christmas so I've been thinking about the whole meaning of it all and how I will feel when she marries, I don't know.jeanette from everton terracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02025486213973874174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-74460958070460369022011-11-18T15:49:57.374-05:002011-11-18T15:49:57.374-05:0021 years next month for us. I can't really fat...21 years next month for us. I can't really fathom any other reality, but I'm not much of a one for "fathoming" anyway :) Ask Mike - you'll get a whole other answer. Ha!The Bughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07509037206264761261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-15329052288849831122011-11-18T15:47:42.433-05:002011-11-18T15:47:42.433-05:00I ponder that myself. the nature of my marriage a...I ponder that myself. the nature of my marriage and my feelings about it have changed many times. would that we were near each other with a bottle of wine and a cozy couch to dissect it.ellen abbotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00535475792150335186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-9262231190930539592011-11-18T15:35:22.907-05:002011-11-18T15:35:22.907-05:00It was, but it's something quite different now...It was, but it's something quite different now. Yours is one of the marriages I ponder, Ellen. That you two were able to make it through - well - wow!Reya Mellickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13076092659507965666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607471777855707790.post-15999064433341006402011-11-18T15:24:53.140-05:002011-11-18T15:24:53.140-05:00It is my belief (and some of that is actually back...It is my belief (and some of that is actually backed up by stuff I have read) that marriage as we know it, and the attendant subjugation of women and diefication of virginity, is all about inheritence rights, men making sure that some other man's kid didn't get the stuff.ellen abbotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00535475792150335186noreply@blogger.com